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The path to better parenting and happier children.
Steven A. Melnick

How Was School?

It's been a while since I have written about dinnertime conversations with your children (CLICK HERE). Recently, particularly in light of the frequency of school shootings and cases of sexual abuse, as parents, we simply need to know more than just our child's academic progress and…

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Steven A. Melnick

Discipline: Yes, No, and Other Choices

Recently I attended an event with a group of friends that was family-oriented--children, parents, grandparents alike. About 20 of us gathered for a picnic where each family contributed the usual potato salad, cheese dip, chips, crackers, along with some more substantive hot dogs, hamburgers, etc. We all…

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Steven A. Melnick

McBesity: Who's to blame?

by Steven A. Melnick -- There is no question that childhood obesity is on the rise and it has serious consequences. Now don't get me wrong. I'm all for making school meals healthier. At school, for example, children are a somewhat captive audience when it…

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Steven A. Melnick

Why the Arts Matter...

by Steven A. Melnick -- Frank was a student who wasn't terribly interested in school but seemed to enjoy the social aspects of it and getting into a little mischief now and then. He exuded a kind of macho persona and had a certain energy…

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Steven A. Melnick

Fire Safety

by Steven A. Melnick -- Since 2007, we change our clocks back to Standard Time from Daylight Savings Time on the first Sunday in November. As the saying goes, spring ahead, fall back. So on November 7 at 2:00am, the time changes to 1:00am. This…

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Steven A. Melnick

Be a role model...

by Steven A. Melnick -- When I taught 4th grade, I used to play the piano in my classroom every day--either in the morning as the students came into the room or, most often, in the late afternoon as they were getting ready to go…

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Steven A. Melnick

Choosing a good school...

by Steven A. Melnick -- For people who already rent or own a home, the choice of which elementary school their child(ren) will attend is determined largely by geography. School districts typically have defined attendance zones for each of their buildings. But for those parents…

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Steven A. Melnick

Importance of Early Reading

by Steven A. Melnick -- Read…read…read! One of the most important gifts we can give our children is an appreciation for books. I sometimes try to imagine how my son's life would be diminished without Bilbo, Frodo, Prince Caspian, Rat and Mole, to name but…

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Steven A. Melnick

Bullying: How to Help Your Child

by Steven A. Melnick --The recent suicide of Tyler Clementi at Rutgers University over cyber-bullying has shined an even brighter sad light on the problem of bullying, particularly cyberbullying. Although we often admonish our children to “stand up for themselves” or “don’t be pushed around,”…

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